After a while you learn the subtle difference
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
And company doesn't mean security,
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts
And presents aren't promises
And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head up and your eyes open,
With the grace of a woman,
Not the grief of a child
And you learn to build all your roads on today,
Because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
After awhile you learn that even sunshine
Burns if you get too much
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
In stead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers
And you learn that you really can endure...
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth,
and you learn and learn...
With every good bye you learn..

I am interested on TEDDYBEARS,Literature,History,Geography,Arts,Philosophy,Psihology,Dance, Music,Good movies, Reading,Crafts and Home Decorating,Traveling and Cooking:)I like to try all kind of things, to get experience in every side of the life,I love my family, my friends, my books:)), my life and I am trying each day to be a better person:)

Llewellyn,Cafe Del Mar,Edward Shearmur,Sade,Late Night Alumni,Alexandre Desplat, Paul Schwartz, Avril Lavigne, Akos,Schiller,Coldplay,Röyksopp,Coffee shop, Frankie Wild,Sting,George Michael,Trading Yesterday,Laura Pausini,Jamie Winchester,Dj Tiesto, Atb,Blank and Jones,Goo Goo Dolls,Evanesence,Andain, Noa,Beverly Craven,Bonnie Tyler,Savage Garden,Bryan Adams, Poets of the fall

THE NOTEBOOK
Memoirs of a geisha,The Lake house, The great debaters,The Illusionist,Serendipity,I am Legend, 13 going on 30,A walk to remember, Mean girls, Pretty woman, Honey,How to lose a guy in 10 days, The game, It's all gone Pete Tong,Anyad napja ,Liar Liar,The forgotten,Schindler listája,Over the Hedge,Sweet november, Changing lanes,The bucket list, Butterfly Effect,Autumn in New York,Deja vu, City of Ember,Save the last dance1,2, The prestige, Green Mile, Wall E, Benjamin Button

Sex and the city,Desperate Housewives, Lost

Arthur Golden-Memoirs of a Geisha
Márai Sándor: A gyertyák csonkig égnek, Az igazi
Barbara Pease, Allan Pease-Miért hazudik a férfi? Miért sir a nő?
Richard Bach-Jonathan Livingston Seagull
Daniel Keyes-Virágot Algernonnak
Dr.Csernus Imre: A férfi
Dallos Sándor:Aranyecset
Stephenie Meyer-twilight
Paulo Coelho-Tizenegy perc,A Zahir,Az alkimista és az összes többi Coelho olvasmány
Barbara Mosallai Bell, Sarah Harris- Hercegasszony voltam Teheránban
Emil Zola-A patkányfogó
Müller Péter-Szeretetkönyv; Jóskönyv
Popper Péter-A belső utak könyve,Magára hagyott generációk
Nicholas Sparks-The notebook
Jules Verne books
Harry Potter's
Lord of the Rings

Time is a companion that goes with us on a journey. It reminds us to cherish each moment, because it will never come again. What we leave behind is not as important as how we have lived.

I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

"Csak akkor tudunk kitartóan szeretni,
ha úgy döntünk, hogy jobban
szeretjük az embereket,
mint megérdemlik."-Gary Chapman

"Ha szeretsz, sebezhető vagy.
Szeress bármit, és biztosra veheted,
hogy megszakad a szíved,de
legalábbis sebet kap.Ha érintetlenül
meg akarod őrizni, ne add senkinek,
még egy állatnak se!
Óvatosan bugyoláld be midnenféle
kis hóbortba és kedvtelésbe,
gondosan kerülj minden kötődést;
zárd be jól önzésed ládikójába-vagy
koporsójába!De ott a koporsóban
-ott a biztonságos , sötét, fülledt
éjszakában elváltozik majd.
Nem törik össze, törhetetlen,
áthatolhatatlan, megválthatatlan
szív lesz belőle."-C.S.Lewis

A számodra különleges emberek figyelmen kívül hagyják a törött kapudat, és megcsodálják a virágokat a kertedben.


Az emberi élet - úgy érzem - csak kívülről nézve hat egyenes vonalnak, mely a bölcsőtől a sírig vezet s ott megszakad. Pontosabban: a fizikai halál nem azonos a valódi halállal. Úgy érzem, mindannyiszor meghalunk, amikor valóban élünk: amikor "belehalunk" egy fölismerés, egy igazság, egy öröm vagy akár egy nagy bánat átélésébe. Amikor megfeledkezünk önmagunkról, s mégis végtelenszer megsokszorozva visszakapjuk önmagunkat.

Aki cselekszik, hangosan és sokat, mindig gyanús, hogy nincs szívében igazi szenvedély
After a while you learn... by Veronica A. Shoffstall

After some time you learn the difference,
The subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul.
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning,
And company doesn't always mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts,
And presents aren't promises.
And you begin to accept your defeats,
With your head up and your eyes ahead,
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child.
And you learn to build all your roads on today,
Because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans,
And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn,
That even the sun burns if you get too much,
And learn that it doesn't matter how much you do care about,
Some people simply don't care at all.
And you accept that it doesn't matter how good a person is,
She will hurt you once in a while,
And you need to forgive her for that.
You learn that talking can relieve emotional pain.
You discover that it takes several years to build a relationship based on confi dence,
And just a few seconds to destroy it.
And that you can do something just in an instant,
And which you will regret for the rest of your life.
You learn that the true friendships,
Continue to grow even from miles away.
And that what matters isn't what you have in your life,
But who you have in your life.
And that good friends are the family,
Which allows us to choose.
You learn that we don't have to switch our friends,
If we understand that friends can also change.
You realize that you are your best friend,
And that you can do do anything, or nothing,
And have good moments together.
You discover that the people who you most care about in your life,
Are taken from you so quickly,
So we must always leave the people who we care about with lovely words,
It may be the last time we see them.
You learn that the circunstances and the enviroment have influence upon us,
But we are responsible for ourselves.
You start to learn that you should not compare yourself with others,
But with the best you can be.
You discover that it takes a long time to become the person you wish to be,
And that the time is short.
You learn that it doesn't matter where you have reached,
But where you are going to.
But if you don't know where you are going to,
Anywhere will do.
You learn that either you control your acts,
Or they shall control you.
And that to be flexible doesn't mean to be weak or not to have personality,
Because it doesn't matter how delicate and fragile the situation is,
There are always two sides.
You learn that heroes are those who did what was necessary to be done,
Facing the consequences.
You learn that patience demands a lot of practice.
You discover that sometimes,
The person who you most expect to be kicked by when you fall,
Is one of the few who will help you to stand up.
You learn that maturity has more to do with the kinds of experiences you had
And what you have learned from them,
Than how many birthdays you have celebrated.
You learn that there are more from you parents inside you than you thought.
You learn that we shall never tell a child that dreams are silly,
Very few things are so humiliating,
And it would be a tragedy if she belived in it.
You learn that when you are angry,
You have the right to be angry,
But this doesn't give you the right to be cruel.
You discover that only because someone doesn't love you the way you would like him to,
It doesn't mean that this person doesn't love you the most she can,
Beacuse there are people who love us,
But just don't know how to show or live that.
You learn that sometimes it isn't enough being forgiven by someone,
Sometimes you have to learn how to forgive yourself.
You learn that with the same harshness you judge,
Some day you will be condemned.
You learn that it doesn't matter in how many pieces your heart has been broken,
The world doesn't stop for you to fix it.
You learn that time isn't something you can turn back,
Therefore you must plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure.
You really are strong .
And you can go so farther than you thougt you could go.
And that life really has a value.
And you have value within the life.
And that our gifts are betrayers,
And make us lose
The good we could conquer,
If it wasn't for the fear of trying....